With all the hullabaloo about Pacquiao's opinion in same-sex marriage, people are beginning to question their opinion as well. I mean let's face it, if you're being asked about it, what would you say? Have you thought about it? Will you be brave enough as Pacquiao or will you just be one of those who remain a spectator or a critic. After all, the easiest thing do in this world is criticize right?
..... So, have you thought about it?
Here's my take, and I don't care if you throw tomatoes at me or give me two thumbs up.
As a matter of fact, I have lots of gay friends. And they are so so dear to me. I love them and never ever looked down at them. I cannot recall I ever condemned them for being gay or even for their acts. That is how I treated them, the same as any of my other friends. But just like Pacquiao, I am not for same-sex marriage as well. And it doesn't mean I don't want my gay friends to be happy. For sure, they don't need to be married to be happy. Marriage is not directly proportional to happiness, mathematically and psychologically. :)
Opinion vs Attitude. Differences vs Respect. They come in parallel. They may not have the same goal but they can agree to walk on the same path on a different direction. The way I walk with my friends and the way we accept and respect each other.
....... So NO, I don't think my gay friends will ever condemn me for my opinion (they might get hurt, yes, but condemn? I don't think so!) They might not agree with me but I know they will respect it. The same respect I gave when they express their opinion that I don't agree with.
...... So, citizens of the world, let's give Pacquiao a break. He already said sorry. For one, he was only expressing his opinion, albeit on a wrong set of words, to an audience of mixed variety -- conservative, open-minded, onion-skinned, opinionated, religious..... Lessons learned for him: know your audience and carefully choose your words.
.... Lastly, it doesn't matter if he earned my vote or not. He definitely earned my respect, this time not for representing the country in boxing but for standing firm on an unpopular opinion, risking condemnation and attacks on his person.
Good day Philippines!!! #DareToBeDifferent
